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1. Actions speak louder than words.
2. The attitude of followers reflects the attitude of their leader, and along with that, our attitude towards others determines their attitude towards us.
3. You become what you focus on: positive or negative.
4. As long as you have good skills, your attitude will not affect your career success. 

It is not “if” your attitude will show, but more accurately “what” will come out.  Whether you think about it or not, the way you carry yourself will be evident to others.  A person’s perception is their reality. So be careful with what you project or you may send an unintentional message.  This applies to the workplace, our home environment and other social gatherings. 

Let’s grade our quiz now. 

1.  Actions speak louder than words. (True)

The old saying “your attitude speaks so loudly I can’t hear what you are saying” is very true.  Our attitudes are the disposition we transmit to others, not necessarily our verbal words.  

2. The attitude of followers reflects the attitude of their leader & our attitude towards others determines their attitude towards us. (True) 

The leader sets the tone.  If as a leader you want to develop a cohesive team, check your own attitude first.  Some key points to look at yourself are the willingness to do what it takes to get the job and being available. Others will also share your enthusiasm as the project will be perceived as important and worth the time.   

As a team member, we must show respect to each other and for different opinions.  Your attitude cannot say “that’s a stupid idea” and expect others to consider your suggestions with an open mind. 

3.  You become what you focus on: positive or negative.  (True) 

I found this saying by Brian Tracy, “You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you, and in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.”  Do not let circumstances rob you of your joy.  How you look at a situation, “is the glass half full” (positive) or “is it half empty” (negative) will determine your attitude.  There has also been medical research to indicate people with positive attitudes have fewer health related problems.  That is not to say we shouldn’t look at things realistically. 

There is little difference in people, but that little difference makes a big difference. The little difference is attitude. The big difference is whether it is positive or negative.   W. Clement Stone 

4.  As long as you have good skills, your attitude will not affect your career success. (False) 

It is easier to teach hard skills than change someone’s attitude.  Especially if that person is so entrenched in their mindset and not open to change.  Most people do not even realize they need to change.  Their attitude is “this is the way I am, and if you don’t like it, tough”.  Even if you are known as being very knowledgeable, if you cannot develop positive relationships with those you will work with, ultimately you will be at a disadvantage.  With today’s job market, your attitude needs to convey that you are a team player, ready to do what it takes to get the job done.  Companies are downsizing and duties shift.  The attitude “that’s not in my job description” is seen as a liability.  

At sometime everyone is in need of an attitude adjustment.  Several factors can contribute to this need. It could be external or environmental circumstances, problems with self-image, or unexplainable negative feelings.  Before these feelings become out of control, minor adjustments on a daily or weekly basis should be routine.  A few suggestions to help you with this are: 

•       Exercise
•       Diet
•       Mediation/spiritual /quiet time
•       Doing for others
•       Hobbies/gardening 

As everyone is different, you will need to find what works for you as an individual.  Just remember to be careful, your attitude is showing.

As we start into the New Year we each need to be reminded of the things we have and have a willing heart to help others.  In helping others we also get blessed.  Honoring our comittments to the chapter and each other should be every member’s desire.

Mary Beth joined the Municiapal Employees chapter in March of 2009 and has jumped right in.  Way to go Mary Beth.

During the months of August, September, and October we collected non-perishable food items to give to a local food bank, The Quinn House.  You can learn more about this ministry’s mission and needs at their website www.thequinnhouse.com.  They are a licensed food bank and have been established in Lawrenceville for over 25 years.

 Our members also wanted to do a “hands on” project.  As a group we signed up to volunteer at Life Care Center in Lawrenceville.  Over the next 6 months we committed to provide ice cream scoopers one Saturday a month.  Jody and I took the first month of October.  I have to say it was a lot of fun for us to work in the Ice Cream Shop and meet the residents.  Brusters watch out!

 You may wonder – how do I do this? How do I be thankful instead of complaining? One example is the rain. We have been very blessed, especially the last few months, with rain. How many of you have complained about it raining or wished it would stop? How many of you were praying for rain last year and at the beginning of this year? Yet when we got it, did you start complaining about it instead of being thankful that we were getting enough to fill the lakes back up?

 This same philosophy can be applied to any situation – instead of complaining, look for something to be thankful for. It may mean taking a totally opposite view of how you normally look at something – stepping outside your comfort zone and looking at things totally different. This can be very hard to do and it takes lots of practice but it can be done. When you start to complain or think/speak negatively, stop yourself. Instead think about what you can be thankful for about the situation or person.

 With the holiday season fast approaching and the biggest shopping day of the year drawing closer (the Black Friday ads have started appearing), it is important to remember to take the time to be thankful and appreciative of what we have instead of being resentful of what we don’t. There is enough stress in all of our lives without us creating more. So next time you are up early enough, take time to watch the sunrise, admire the colors and how the reflect in the clouds. Look at the horizon and see how the trees and/or buildings look against it. Or, when you are out and about coming home from work or running errands, take the time to admire the sunset and be thankful for the opportunity to watch the sunset, for the completion of another day, for being able to run errands or to have a job to come home from.

We will resume our regular schedule of meeting on the 3rd Thursday evening in September.

Please also note, starting with the August meeting our new time.  Networking will be from 5:45 pm with the program beginning at 6:00 pm.  The location has stayed the same.